Monday, 11 June 2012

when life offers you so much more

Ever wondered why we abuse our life so much ? well , you could tell me the best possible answer . Go on , tell me because your life is unfair and i shall have no other option but accepting what you say . Each one of us feel that our life is really bad at some point of our life or may be rather too often . Remember those times ? when you got 40 % in one of your test while your friend got 80 % and still he cribbed about how bad his marks are ? such sadism are common in our short life . well , now to be precise none of us are actually ever satisfied with what life gives us . Be it a kid or the eldest person walking on this planet. one will crib about how he never got the toy he dreamed about while the other would crib about not wanting to live any more . Its amazing to see each one of us having something or the other in our minds to crib about . May be this is why god made us all different , just in case we dint get bored of having to face same problem . When two people having similar problems meet its the biggest catastrophe that could ever happen. you would go on and on about how you faced this problem and the other would tell you about how he faced the similar problem but none of you , i mean none of you would find a solution . You know what the funny part is ?  i am sure some of you who might read it would go like " oh shit , dint i do it just few mins back ?" you don't need to be afraid of admitting it as this is the ideal situation every where . I always wondered how 2 people having same problem could ever talk . how could they ? i am sure while you are talking you dont want other to be like " dude , i have been there .so don't worry, every thing will be fine ." and i dont know if we just dont know ? or may be something like that we don't care . we just carry on with our story .
                                                               ahhhh, love hurt anyone ? don't be ashamed we all have been through it ? haven't we ?. posting sad face book updates , quotes on love , sad songs -" coz darling i still catch a grenade for you " and not to mention 3 rd person status meant for them but would we ever agree ? . poor friends of ours have to go through it giving them some more topic to crib about . oh well it is a certain period of our life when every other ugly opp. sex looks the bright door and you just feel like opening it . Well , i am not much of a pundit or something but surely if you are looking for a relation then never talk about you're ex . some great person once said "the reason why she is your ex is coz she was never the person you wanted " . Lets just say those bright doors would never work , coz they are a way away from your ex and not a way out but sadly the world never thinks about it at such a fragile moment in your life . Any way coming back to the topic , lets just say a love hurt friend is your medicinal dose for next  few months of your life and surely be prepared to have your play list updated coz for next few months his player would be stuck on repeat with just one sad song repeating again and again.
                                      I shall give you a tip . Read this our very carefully , if you really want to crib , go crib to a person who is about to die . in that way you don't have to worry about their problem or have to worry about what they have to say . Think about everything you read about , think about every thing you thought in your mind while reading it . did it connect to you in some way ?. We all face problems in our life but what we need to realize is that some one els is having a problem worse than you . cribbing might take you away from your sorrow for a while but you can never deal with it in long term. For those of you who cant live with out it i just want to say , you only live once . cribbing about something you dont have would be very stupid coz in the end when you are about to die ,life would show you about how it gave you so many options but you never saw them  . life gives you much more than you want or desire , its you who decides if you want it or not .